Randy Bolger
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Dorothy Newburn posted a condolence
Monday, July 24, 2023
Sue and Family.So very sorry to hear of Randy's passing.Thinking of you and Family.Ken always spoke very highly of Randy.
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Monday, July 24, 2023
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My Great Uncle Randy,
He is one of my grandmothers younger brothers.
I always just called him Uncle Randy.
I grew up with my grandma always talking so highly of her brothers Randy and Tim. How proud she was of them. How wonderful of men they had turned out to be.
As I grew up I was fortunate enough to spend time with them anytime they came to the Comox Valley. Forever in my memory is a trip they had taken out here. I might have been 3 or 4. I can vividly remember spilling a box of cracker jacks all over the floor of his rental car. I remember thinking I would be in so much trouble. Yet I was met with kindness and patience.
Throughout my entire 34 years Randy and Sue have both shown me unconditional love anytime I’ve been around them. It was so clear to me the love and adoration he had for his wife and for Shannon and Jason. As well as the love he had for his grandkids. He was a true family man and I feel blessed to have been able to call him Uncle Randy.
I wish I had lived closer so I could have had more time with this great man. His legacy will shine bright through those he has left behind.
I am so grateful to have several pieces of his woodworking to pass onto my girls one day. I will proudly say my Uncle Randy made that!
To his family. The greatest losses we feel, mean we were so blessed to have had someone so wonderful to love.
Darryl, myself and the girls are thinking of you all and are so sorry for the loss of a truly wonderful man in your lives.
Brit posted a condolence
Monday, July 24, 2023
It is with a grieving heart that I write this passage. His passing has left a great hole in my heart.
My (baby) brother was 6 years younger than me and I remember quite vividly the little blonde-haired boy with a head of curls (which I envied, of course!) who was a happy, spontaneous and generous child who grew into adulthood with the same outlook on life.
When our mother died in a car accident my sister and I were both married and living a distance away from home. Randy immediately stepped in and took over full care of his little 5-year- old brother when his dad could not be there.
Randy, growing up could often be seen with his dog putting him through his training. Randy loved animals; Sue having the same predilection, there were always dogs and cats and various other pets in residence over the years
He chose Sue as his life partner and together they raised two great children and welcomed four grandchildren. He spent countless happy hours carrying out his grandfatherly duties.
Although Randy is gone from those who loved him, he will always be there in our hearts and memories. Rest in peace dear brother.
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Melissa Klymko posted a condolence
Sunday, July 23, 2023
I met Jason in 1990 or 1991. I knew Sue from school already, and I sort of was aware of Shannon through my sister, but I'd not yet met them all. I remember my first impression of Randy was that he was a bit scary... Not the dad you wanted to get on the wrong side of. That impression quickly gave way to the truth, which was that as imposing and "cranky" as he might have seemed, he was a very big teddy bear, always ready with a wise crack and that sideways glance and grin. He was fully and completely invested in his family, and that meant me too, by extension. He was always there with advice and help, and warnings when required, and he was just... Dad in all ways.
My favourite memory is watching some cheesy '90s (or maybe even '80s) action movie on family movie night... There was a lot of gun and knife wielding in it. After the credits started to roll, Randy stood up and said very matter-of-fact: "That is not the way you hold a knife in a fight..." He proceeded to teach me and Jason how to properly hold a knife to protect ourselves in a knife fight, you know, just in case that should ever happen... There was sparring in the living room and everything, just to make sure we understood the lesson. He wanted to know that we could take care of ourselves always, no matter what life threw at us.
I know, without doubt, the he didn't want to go; but I also know with equal confidence, that he built a very strong, confident, happy, loving and supportive family - one that will continue to thrive. You could see and feel how proud he was of his family, and I bet he had a smile on his face in that kitchen that morning, with all of his people around him, and doing what he did best, which was loving them all, the best and biggest he could. Ever onward. Love all you guys so much xox
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Debbie Hepworth posted a condolence
Saturday, July 22, 2023
Dear Sue and family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I only got to meet Randy once at your place but came away with respect for Randy, his fight against disease and his great talent in woodworking. I will treasure those pieces I have forever. Hugs Sue, I'm thinking of you and the family and Copper.
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Jessica Bean posted a condolence
Friday, July 21, 2023
Our deepest sympathies to Shannon, Lee, Jordan, Alex, Sue and the entire family. Randy was so welcoming and a joy to be around whenever we visited. The girls and I have some fun memories of last summer swimming and playing at their place. Sending you all love, strength and comfort today and every day. ❤️
Jess & Dave Bean
Brooklyn & Harley
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Jamie-Marie posted a condolence
Thursday, July 20, 2023
It’s funny to look back on my childhood and remember that I was once “scared” of my Uncle Randy. He was a big man in a policeman’s uniform and I was a shy little girl.
As I started to grow up, all traces of fear vanished and I was left with only feelings of respect and admiration. I respected and admired the life he had built; his relationship with his wife, his career, the father (and later, grandfather) he was, and the genuine good person he was.
He was someone you could always rely on to help you, and he had a way of making people feel seen and valued.
This is a devastating loss for our family. He was one of the best, and he will be missed dearly.
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Ralph Thomson posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 19, 2023
Dear Sue. My heart goes out to you and your family. I meant Randy as I was doing repairs on the OPP vehicles years ago Randy came across as a stern OPP officer that demanded and deserved respect. But I also seen the gentle caring man that he was. I have not communicated with him since I stopped repairing OPP vehicles and it still makes me sad to hear of his passing Take care
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Ian Robson posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 19, 2023
Our. Condolences go out to Randy’s family. I remember Randy from when he worked in the old #16 District (Thunder Bay) . I met him during my duties in in service training. He was always well regarded and respected. As I remember ,he always enjoyed our training sessions .
Ian E. Robson, Sergeant retired. I.S.T.
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Lisa &Carl Thomlinson posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 19, 2023
Our deepest condolences. Many a great conversation on the dog walking trail solving world problems. His talent with wood lives on in our home as Randy turned the blocks of wood Carl dropped off into beautiful bowls. Rideau Ferry will miss him.
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Kim and Tim Bolger posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 18, 2023
I am the luckiest girl because not only did I get to marry Randy's brother Tim, but I also got the best brother in law you could ask for! I just loved Randy from our first meeting and we were thrilled to move to Rideau Ferry to be close to Randy, Sue, Shannon and her family. His greeting of "hey babe" always made me feel special, even though he likely used it on many! He was so kind, so giving and the best trash talking opponent I could have on our Wed night marbles games. Randy and I often chatted about how much he loved his life, how much he loved his wife Sue, how lucky he was to have his kids, grandkids and of course, Copper. Family was his life and we were so happy to be part of it. Love you Randy, we will miss you forever ❤️
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Craig and Kathy Wormald posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 18, 2023
We were saddened to hear of Randy's passing. We always associate you and Randy with the dogs. He faithfully walked those dogs and really enjoyed them. We will miss Randy on those daily walks. You must have lots of wonderful. memories that bring you joy despite the loss.
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Tuesday, July 18, 2023
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I am married Shannon and I couldn’t be more grateful for the family that I also married into. Randy has been a father, a friend and a role model to me for 20 years since I met him. I’ll never forget the four hour trip from Guelph to Rideau Ferry to ‘meet the parents”. I sh!t a brick on that drive knowing how protective of his daughter this 6’-1” OPP officer was. It didn’t take long to see that I was welcomed into the family and under that protective bubble as well. Every time we left Rideau Ferry to return home, he would say “keep your head up”. I knew that this had multiple meanings but, most importantly, protect his little girl and grandchildren. I will do every thing in my power to fulfill that role.
He was always there to help. In the photo below, he drove to Guelph for the weekend to help me finish the basement in our first home. He has been there to help ever since, as recently as a couple of weeks ago to build a shelter for the horses. His extra hands and knowledge will be greatly missed.
Sue, Jason and Shannon,
it’s hard to talk about this right now so I’m spilling it here. I love you and I’m here for whatever you need.
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Irene Dobbie posted a condolence
Monday, July 17, 2023
I am very sorry to hear of Randy's passing. My heart goes out to you Sue and all your family. I worked for many years with Randy and he was such a dedicated officer and was always so kind to the office staff. Unfortunately I am unable to be there Friday but will be thinking of you all. Hugs to you and kids and grandkids.
Irene Dobbie
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Tina Benoit posted a condolence
Monday, July 17, 2023
I'm so sorry to hear of Randy's passing. I encountered Randy while working at the POA office in Perth and have fond memories of him as he had a passion for keeping our highways safe. I worked with Shannon in my earlier days at a local restaurant.
My thoughts are with you and your family and friends at this time.
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Janet and Jerry Dowell posted a condolence
Sunday, July 16, 2023
Our deepest sympathies to you Sue and your family. Randy’s legacy will live on not only through his policing, but his beautiful woodwork. He was a great neighbour and friend. I expect he is now happily walking Finnegan up there.
May your good memories help you during this difficult time.
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Brent McLaren posted a condolence
Sunday, July 16, 2023
You’ll find nothing but the happiest memories from me … from the times of his service with the police, through to parent-teacher interviews, to nights yakking after theatre shows and countless discussions while visiting the Farmer’s Market while he doted over his kids, their spouses and grand-children. It is hard to express loss at the best of times, but he leaves all of us a legacy of a life well loved. Life has me on the road this Friday, but if my plans get delayed, I will surely be there with you. We will meet up somewhere down the road for sure.
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Nancy Gilmour posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
Sue, I am so sorry. Randy was seven days older than me and growing up he always reminded me to obey my elders, namely him. I loved him dearly and will miss our yearly talks on his birthday. Much love to your family and all the Bolger cousins.
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Larry Birch posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
I did not meet Randy until after his retirement. We were both regulars at the Rideau Ferry Store for breakfast. He impressed me with his strong sense of right and wrong and his compassion for people. He must have been a wonderful police officer. I will miss him.
Larry Birch
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Peter Donnelly posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
I was fortunate enough to work with Randy for many years. He was a fantastic cop and he worked hard until the day he retired. They just don’t make them like that anymore. Condolences to his family and loved-ones.
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Rosetta McInnes posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
Prayers to the Bolger family. I knew Randy from working with the Perth Police and when we needed backup and he came we knew we were in good hands. So sorry to hear this. May he rest easy in God's arms as his dedicated service to the people on earth is done.
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Dave & Kelly Blair posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
To Sue, Jason, Shannon and the entire Bolger Family we send our heartfelt sympathies and deepest condolences to you at this difficult time. We were truly saddened to learn of Randy’s passing.
I affectionately gave Randy the nickname of “Rudy” and I had the honour and privilege to serve and work alongside Rudy on the same platoon for many years. I have many a fond memory being doubled up with him rocking and rolling all over Lanark County.
Randy wore his badge on his sleeve and he served nobly with the hallmarks of honour, loyalty, compassion/empathy, fairness, dedication to duty and kindness shown to all those less fortunate or who found themselves in tragic and difficult circumstances. You can be so very proud of him as I’m certain you are and just know the Country, Province and County are a better place because of good Men like Randy! Most people go through life wondering if they ever made a difference - a Police Officer doesn’t have that problem!
Grief is the last act of love we have to give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief there is deep love!
You will be missed Rudy - R.I.P. Brother - you have earned it!
Fondly remembered
Dave & Kelly Blair
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Brenda Ann Ethier posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
Susan, Jason, Shannon, and grandchildren, I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your dear husband, father, and grandfather. My deepest sympathy to you for what must be a devastating loss to all of you.
Brenda Ethier (McPherson)
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Bob and Marilyn Burch posted a condolence
Saturday, July 15, 2023
Our sincere condolences to Sue and Family. Randy will be missed
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Jean P Hardy posted a condolence
Friday, July 14, 2023
Thinking of you in your time of sorrow May you cherished memories
give you peace and strength for tomorrow Susan God dosent give you
nothing you cant handle Love Aunt Jean
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Friday, July 14, 2023
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Stacey Niceliu posted a condolence
Friday, July 14, 2023
Su and family, Marsha and I are deeply saddened to hear of Randy’s passing. He will be greatly missed.
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Terry and Heather Swayne posted a condolence
Friday, July 14, 2023
Susan and family Terry and I are saddened to hear of the passing of Randy please remember someone who shared so much life with you will always be a part of you. Bonds like yours are forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during these times.
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Karen Cole posted a condolence
Friday, July 14, 2023
Susan Jason and Shannon, my deepest condolences on the loss of Randy.
Karen Cole and family
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DON LANDRY posted a condolence
Friday, July 14, 2023
Susan and family - Randy was a platoon fellow member and a great one. His work ethic was exemplary. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Friday, July 14, 2023
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