Benjamin M.C. "Ben" van der Ham
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Ahmed Gad posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 6, 2022
One year passed, and you are still in our hearts!
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Bianca Paulino Miranda posted a condolence
Monday, December 20, 2021
My deepest condolences to Lia and Van der Ham family.
Ben was a great guy and I had the pleasure to work with him. I will remember Ben as a thoughtful and caring person.
He will be greatly missed.
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Nancy posted a condolence
Friday, December 17, 2021
I too worked with Ben at Grenville Castings. I remember him always being kind, helpful and approachable (as being new to the industry, this kindness was very much appreciated!). Sending condolences to the family members and friends. He will be missed.
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Andrea Howard uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, December 16, 2021
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Oh Ben... You are...must I say were... the best landlord a person could hope for: kind, organized, respectful, thoughtful, diligent, resourceful and, especially, compassionate. I looked forward to our lively conversations over a pot of tea on your regular visits to change alarm batteries and furnace filters. I marveled at your skills when you had to get down and dirty replacing deck boards, removing downed trees, parging the basement wall and doing occasional smaller jobs as needed. This sweet old century house has sheltered me for some 14 years; I am ever grateful to you, to Corry, to Bill and most recently, to Lia for this security. May we continue to care for it, in your memory.
I miss you Ben. Here are pictures of the whole gang at one of the annual Dutch-Day / Canalfest events that brought you all together in Merrickville. What a wonderful family! How blessed I am to feel a part of it. My heart goes out to you all.
Andrea Howard
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Sandi Montgomery posted a condolence
Thursday, December 16, 2021
Lia, and family, no words can express how deeply heartbroken we all are to hear this news. Ben was an exceptionally kind person and will be missed by many. Please know you are in my heart and prayers. RIP kind soul
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Scott posted a condolence
Thursday, December 16, 2021
As many have already said, Ben was such a kind thoughtful person. We only got together a few times a year, usually when his Blue Bombers would come to Ottawa. And usually they got the better of it, but it was always a great time anyway. We shared a lot of laughs and he would be thrilled with their OT victory in the Grey Cup. My sincere condolences to Lia and the rest of his family, he will be missed.
Scott & Lori Cameron
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Corrie Moorman posted a condolence
Thursday, December 16, 2021
Our heartfelt condolences to Lia, Tante Corry, Ben's sister, his brothers and the rest of his family.
Ben was our cousin and we all had the pleasure of meeting him either in Ontario or on Ben and Lia's visit to Holland in 2016.
As visitors from Holland Ben would always make us feel welcome. He showed great interest in how you enjoyed your visit and he always made sure there were get togethers at his house or at Tante Corry's.
We will remember Ben for his kindness, his love for Lia, his Mom and his family.
We will fondly remember him for the special person that he was.
He'll be in our hearts forever.
On behalf of the whole Moorman family,
Corrie Moorman
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Kelly Brett posted a condolence
Thursday, December 16, 2021
Lia
Our hearts and hugs go out to you. Ben was a kind and gentle soul who will be greatly missed by all who knew him. We shared many a meal with Ben and fondly remember his passion for a little pie with his whip cream.
You are in our thoughts
Claude and Kelly Brett
Lombardy, Ontario
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Ahmed Gad posted a condolence
Thursday, December 16, 2021
Ben will remain in our hearts forever; his face was the first thing I used to see every morning at 6:30 am. I never felt he was my manager, but a friend and family.
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Giancarlo DeSimone posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Ben, you were a truly beautiful person, handsome, kind, and generous with an almost inexplicable thoughtfulness for others. The love you demonstrated for others, especially your wife, was the stuff of fairy tales, except it was not a fairy tale, it was simply you.
I cried this weekend watching your Blue Bombers win the Grey Cup, wishing you were here to enjoy that moment; I then realized that you are here. A light as bright as you never dies! You remain as beautiful as ever Ben, a beautiful soul now in the Kingdom of God.
I cannot believe it was just a couple of months ago that we were planning a “Guys Weekend” in Niagara. I’m going to miss that, I’m going to miss teasing you about your crappy Sabres, but most of all, I’m going to miss you.
We will never forget the gift you brought to our family, we will never stop praying for your soul, so please don’t forget to check up on us once in a while.
I love you brother….may you rest in peace forever.
Giancarlo
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john audet posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
my condolences to Lia and the Van der ham family. Ben will be missed.Ben was a great guy and I had the pleasure working with him…john audet.
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Wayne Levin posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
What a loss! Ben was such a fine, young man. I got to know him when he started at Grenville Castings in the late 90s. We shared a love of cars. One day I mentioned that I hit a bump and lost a wheel cap on my '78 Camaro. The next visit, Ben had a replacement for me.
I've not been in touch for some years - so glad to know he married (I encouraged him) - in virtually every conversation I ever had with him!
I teased him about loving cars yet participating (and doing well) in demolish derbies.
Ben was very thoughtful, knowledgeable and professional. He was one of those who didn't need to boast (and never did), his accomplishments spoke loudly. He was a a friend to everyone and anyone.
I'm so deeply sorry to Ben's wife and family and all who knew him. May his memory be a blessing and provide comfort.
Wayne Levin
Toronto
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Jeff Estey posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Lia and the Van der Ham family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies on Ben's passing.
I've worked remotely with Ben for many years and hearing of his passing is truly heart breaking.
He will be greatly missed.
He was a great co-worker and always there to lend a hand and provide support.
I am truly sorry for your loss and hope you will take some solace in your fond memories of him and those memories shared by friends both near and far .
Jeff Estey
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Satharasinghe posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Dear Lia, Messina and Van der ham family
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the sudden loss of Ben. You are in our prayers during these difficult times. We hope you are surrounded with love, support and comfort during this grieving time.
I have been working with Ben for 13 years at Eaton and he was very caring, compassionate and gentle person. When I visit to Eaton facility in Perth, Ben would always greet me and ask how my drive was. He was very patient, calm and always respectful towards his colleagues. It was shocking to hear his sudden demise.
Lia - We hold you close in our thoughts and want you to know you can always lean on us for whatever you may need.
Sashi Satharasinghe and family
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Lesia posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Dearest Lia,
I am saddened to hear of Ben's passing.
My deepest, heartfelt condolences.
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Cam Workman posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
My deepest condolences to Lia and the van der Ham family. I will remember Ben as a thoughtful and caring person. Always positive, he was a pleasure to work with over the years. He will be missed.
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Shane Roach posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Although I never had the privilege of meeting Ben, I’m saddened to hear of a passing within our Eaton family.
Just reading the outpouring thus far, I get a sense of how special Ben was as a person, a friend and a family member.
Lia, my deepest condolences to you and all those who surround you during this difficult time.
What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.
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Kevin Chung posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
My deepest condolences to the entire family.
Ben was a great guy and absolutely wonderful to work with. He will be missed.
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Anas Atieh posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
My sincere condolences to Lia, the van der Ham and Messina families .
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Rodney Barteau posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
So sorry for your loss. My Deepest condolences to Lia and the entire family.
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Judy Murphy posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
My sincere condolences to Lia ,the van der Ham and Messina families .Cherish all the wonderful memories
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Christen McIntosh posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
To Lia and Ben’s family,
My heart aches for you, I had the pleasure of working with Ben from time to time at Eaton and he was an absolutely great guy.
Ben was always willing to help, very engaged and simply a great person.
Lia, the love that you both had for one another was so special.
Ben will forever be in my prayers and you Lia will forever be in my thoughts.
Sending you love and light ~
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Rob and Sharon Drynan posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Lia and Ben's family, we send our heart felt condolences.
I worked with/for Ben for mostly all his time at Grenville Castings and before or after his time I did not meet or work for someone as genuine, kind, thoughtful. dedicated, knowledgeable as Ben.
The only time I seen Ben upset was the 1st and last time I tried to tidy his desk. It did not hurt but I understood.
If the Lord was seeking good people, he got the best albeit far to soon.
Rest in peace my friend, son, brother.
Our thoughts and prayers
Rob and Sharon Drynan
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Julio Gonzalez posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
My name is Julio Gonzalez, I'm working in the same building as Lia, Ben's wife, is living in. I meet Ben a few years ago, but was enough to see how kind and adorable person he was. So I'm deeply grateful for that little time, but really sad for the early he left, God has a reason for everything, I'm praying to have Ben with God, and I know he is.
Rest in peace Ben, we will miss you.
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Tina Tossavainen posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
My heartfelt condolences go out to Lia and his Family for the passing of Ben. Ben was the kindest, warm, loving husband of Lia who was always there for everyone. My prayers are with you, Lia and your Family. Hope you find the fond memories that bring you comfort during this hard time in your life.
Tina
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Shirley Briscoe posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
My very sincere condolences to Lia, Corry and the van der Ham family. Please know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
I knew Ben from my Grenville Casting days and am so very saddened by this news.
Ben was a true gentleman and a good friend; fun to be around and easy to talk too.
RIP Young Man.
Shirley Briscoe
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Jennifer Riopelle posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
Deepest condolences to Ben’s family. To his mom, brothers and sister; Ben lives in all of the memories you created together cherish them all as he fondly spoke of all of you.
Lia, there was no light that could compare to the shine in both of your eyes. Ben was truly devoted to you as you to him. If ever there was a perfect match you two found it.
As to all of the coworkers we all share our fond memories of Ben. The car enthusiast, the safety guy, the process improvement guru, Movember supporter and mostly the perfect boss, coworker and friend.
There is not a life he has touched that didn’t have a lasting impression. Rest In Peace my friend you will never be forgotten. Keep smiling
Jennifer Riopelle
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Al Brown posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
So sorry to hear about Ben’s passing. He was a wonderful friend to my wife and I .
May he Rest In Peace
Al Brown
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Bernadette Bennet posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
My condolences to Ben's family. I had the privilage to work as a Temp at Eaton. He was a very good supervisor. RIP to a really nice man.
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Bonnie Lowery posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
Sending my love and condolences to Lia and to Ben’s family.
He was an amazing person and I am proud to call him friend.
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FRED MCDONALD posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
Ben was a dedicated Grenville castings employee ,but most of all he was a true friend. I will never forget our hours in the car driving back and forth from Buffalo to visit American Axle. Ben would entertain me with his ability to identify every Make, Model and Year of car or truck that was near us. He never missed sending me a greeting on my Birthday and I looked forward to hearing from him every year in November when he reached out for money for Movember.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Lia and Ben's family.
I will miss you Ben. Rest in Peace.
Fred and Faye McDonald
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George Robb posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
A great work partner and better friend ..
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Kirk Albert posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
Ben was a caring, loyal and trusted friend to so many people and I had the privilege of being one of them.
We worked together for over 10 years and had a lot of laughs, he never ceased to amaze at his incredible recall of details and his logical and calm approach to whatever obstacles came his way.
He always had a keen and genuine interest in how I and my family were doing since we both moved on in our careers and Ben never missed a birthday message to me over the past 11 years, something I know he maintained with many of his friends which was thoughtful and personal and heartfelt.
Ben was always ready to lend a hand or help others when needed, which was also reflected in his charitable work with the Movember Foundation over the years.
He will be sorely missed, but I will forever cherish the good memories I have of him as a colleague but most importantly as my dear friend.
To Lia, and to Ben’s family we wish you our sincerest condolences.
Kirk and Johanne Albert
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Juanita and Steve Munro posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
My heart aches. Ben was such a good person and friend. Lia, treasure the memories you've made. They will last forever. Hugs and prayers to you and the family.
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Aleta Karstad Schueler posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
I am shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Ben. What a cheerful, helpful young lad he was whenever Rose brought him around, and we loved hearing news of him through the years. His cheerful loving presence will be missed in the world. My heart goes out to you all and I pray for your comfort and courage.
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Antonina and Salvatore Colomba posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
My heart breaks for you my dear friend Lia van der Ham. What a shock! Please accept our deepest heartfelt condolences to you and the family. Your memories of Ben and your time together will last forever in your heart and mind! Our thoughts and prayers are with you, sending you lots of hugs and love. You have an angel watching over you. RIP Ben.
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John McGeough uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
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Ben was such an enjoyable person to be with. His joy for life was contagious, spreading to people that he worked and socialized with, and his family. We will miss his faithful birthday greetings, his enthusiasm for getting together to discuss friends, cars, work, and his ability to accurately relate so many life events to Simpsons episodes.
We offer our sincere condolences to Ben's family, especially to Lia, his mom, brothers, and sister.
Rest in peace our dear friend!
John & Karen McGeough
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The family of Benjamin M.C. van der Ham uploaded a photo
Monday, December 13, 2021
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