Stephany Brea Bolton
June-14-1980 - July-09-2023
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Lara Anderson posted a condolence
Sunday, September 24, 2023
While most of my memories with Steph are from when I was a young child, I can vividly remember how fun and kind she was, and how much I enjoyed hanging out with her and the family. Steph was such an inspiration to little me, and I can remember how badly I wanted to be a cool teenager like her. Oh so badly! Honestly, I don’t think that feeling ever went away. Always looked up to her.
I have many fond memories of Steph babysitting me and my siblings. To this day, I still often think about visiting your house, swimming in the pool and teasing Steph for not wanting to eat hot dogs. I’d argue that that day, when she explained what vegetarianism was to little me, inspired me to be a vegetarian for well over a decade. Small moments, big impacts.
Uncle Brent, Aunt Martie, JoAnne, and Josh…I’ve been thinking about you all so much the last couple months, and my heart aches for you. Sending you so much love.
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Neil uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
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found a nice photo Steph sent me last spring.
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Neil posted a condolence
Sunday, August 20, 2023
Stephy,
I know you’re with us. Learning of your death has made this a very heavy week. Last month, you wrote the kindest text telling me to remember good times we had. What I didn't know is that was probably the last day of your life.
It's taken me days to process this event. And I just can't say it in two words. The confusion will probably linger until it goes away. We only knew each other a short while. I never met your family, so they may not know what I mean when they read this. But it's a story I feel is worthy of reading that provides an account into your last days.
We met last January. Immediately you came into my life. We lived an hour apart, so the phone was our ticket to dozens of hours-long talks into the night. Sy and Meya were always talked about with pride. Sometimes I talked to them too. Meya often did your makeup to prepare for our video chats. Sometimes on your smoke breaks outside, you put down the phone to shoo away coyotes and turkeys wandering the backyard. We made plans to have coffee at Bastard's (such a funny name). Sometimes I thought you were crazy, but now I realize it was just courage shining through in short bursts of energy and colour. A few months later, work picked up and I had to wake up earlier. We had (a few heated) arguments over limiting phone time. Agh! I got so annoyed because I found you so endearing. We used the word "pineapple" as reminder to change subjects or end the call. You needed a friend and knew how to be a friend. I kept saying just because I couldn’t always talk on the phone didn’t mean I was gone.
After your last text, I tried connecting but never heard back. Last Tuesday, I called but your phone was disconnected. So I checked online for your email address and instead found an obituary. And that's when my mind flooded with beautiful memories.
While this must be very difficult for your family, I hope you have peace and that you are reunited with Charly.
Truly, I am a better person for having met you.
Save a dance for me!
Neil
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JoAnne Himmelman posted a condolence
Thursday, August 17, 2023
When Someone Has Gone
When someone has gone,
you can bring them back
for just a little while
by talking them into life
by painting a picture
with your memories and your words
breathing their essence
back into existence
for just a few moments.
When someone has gone
you can see them again
for a minute or two
by being all the things they once were
by allowing their best traits
to filter through you
shaping your words,
your thoughts and your deeds
back out into this world.
When someone has gone
you can feel them again
for just a moment
by playing their music
and singing their favourite songs
by giving yourself up to the notes
that brought them alive
once upon a time
it will again.
When someone has gone
you can keep a part of them alive
by giving the love you had for them
a forever place in your life
a forever seat at your table
and a glorious chapter in your book.
Stories never die
tell them.
When Meya and Sy are ready - I will to tell stories of you and I will make sure your children know you were here and that you existed and you will not be forgotten. May you be at rest Steph, I hope you and Charly have found one another…
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Tyler & Jessica Willoughby posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 16, 2023
We were deeply sadden to hear about the passing of Steph. She undoubtedly shared a unique bond with everyone she knew and her absence will be deeply felt. May you find comfort in the cherished memories you shared, and may her spirit continue to shine through the love you carry in your heart. Please do not hesitate to reach out if you need anything.
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Beverly Dibb posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 15, 2023
Sending our heartfelt condolences and love to my brother Brent, his wife Martie and their entire family. Such a sad thing to happen to a young beautiful person like Stephany. Our thoughts are constantly with you. Love from Aunt Bev & Uncle Ron and our entire family.
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Kim Dibb posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 15, 2023
Most of my memories of Stephany are from the time she was a toddler to a young woman going to college. Brent and Martie, I came to know her well during all those fun times we spent at your place, and at the cottage, celebrating holidays and special occasions, playing games, swimming in the pool, etc. I miss those times, those innocent and joyful days. One memory that kept going through my mind during the days before she passed was the time we were playing Pictionary at the cottage. She was just a little girl then but played the game brilliantly and with such enthusiasm. My kids remember her as a wonderful babysitter – they always looked forward to her being there. She was a sweet, artistic and caring soul. In recent months, she had reached out to me on several occasions and expressed a strong interest in coming here to BC. Brent, Martie, JoAnne and Josh I send my deepest condolences on this profound loss. I hope the love we all have for her brings her peace. All of us out here on Vancouver Island grieve with you and send our love and support❤️
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Julie (Himmelman) Stephens posted a condolence
Saturday, August 12, 2023
To all of Stephy’s loved ones,
I have so many fond memories of Stephany through the years, and while we didn’t talk all that often, we still would take time to catch up and have a phone chat or conversation over messenger over the years. Our families have been a big part of each others lives for many years now , and the losses that you all have endured is felt here too. We’re here with you all and supporting you all however we can as you navigate this new part of life without Stephy’s physical presence.
You will never ever be forgotten Steph.
“On the days when no one but you mentions their name, I am so so sorry. Say their name bravely. Know that they are still real, they were still here, and they are still yours.”
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Edward and Martie Bolton posted a condolence
Saturday, August 12, 2023
Stephany your mother and I miss you immensely. It's only a short time since your passing but a piece of our hearts are empty. We were and are proud of our Stephany. We hope you're reunited with your Charly. We'll see you soon.
Always loved and remembered
Mom and Dad
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Wednesday, August 9, 2023
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